May The Best Find You And Stay With You

You may not be aware of it, but all the good you give to those around you is returned to you, as well as the wrong.

Desiring the best for everyone around us is very common.

Noble, pure and selfless desire is not very common. Rather, we tend to desire all the best for ourselves and for the people who are closest, the ones we love the most.

Now, why do we like to foster these kinds of thoughts and desires so much for everyone in the same way, whether we like the person or not?

You should know that many of our desires, our actions, our words and our behaviors have consequences. 

The same thing happens with wishes.

A wish is the visualization of a will and a yearning for action. If I want the best to go with someone, I will also do my best to make it happen, and I will do it persuasively, because that is how I feel.

Good wishes enrich us as a person. They cost nothing and do a lot, because they transform our thoughts and remove from our minds many negative charges and approaches.

We suggest you think about this.

The best that contains positive thoughts

The classic idea that “ we reap what we sow ” still has a hold of truth.

But, far from seeing this conception as something determining, we must rather consider it in the following way: each act has a consequence.

Cultivating positive thoughts every day is synonymous with health.

We are not talking about spiritual matters or practicing kindness in an arbitrary manner, only because our religious or spiritual ethics require us to do so.

Having positive thoughts means better understanding your life. If I want the best to accompany my family and friends, I show that I love them and care about their well-being.

Now the real problem comes when you wish “the worst” on someone you hate.
What meaning does it have? What do we gain from this? Who likes to watch the failures of those he does not like shows a certain immaturity.

In a way, it is enough to remember the stages of moral development in children, explained by Lawrence Kohlberg.

For 6 or 7 year olds, there is only one moral code and this one says that “those with whom I get along well deserve the best and those whom I don’t like should be punished”.

This approach does not build anything, it is neither worthy nor citizen. We don’t have to get along well with the world.

On the other hand, not getting along well does not matter whether you desire failure or unhappiness for someone.

It is best to wish them the best on their personal life journey.

During this time, we turn to other people, with whom we can coincide better, but desiring the best for everyone.

What you do, think and desire, be it best or worst, always comes back to you

Some call it the “law of chance”, others “the boomerang effect”. These terms translate into something easy to understand.

• My actions and thoughts always have consequences. One word said at the wrong time can cause a person we love to walk away.
• Wishing someone something bad can make people abandon us in the long run because we hold a grudge.
• Each of the things we do, say or wish leaves a mark on those around us. So remember, before you speak, think about the effect your words can have.

Before you do anything, think about the consequences, and above all, wish the best of those around you.

It is like sowing seeds of nobility that enrich you as a person.

You are free to create your future

Buddha told us that “ if you want to know your present, look at your past because it is the result. But if you want to know your future, listen to your present, because it will be the cause ”.

This idea is as easy as pie. We are free beings and the architects of our reality. Everything we do has consequences, as we know it and this is how we gradually shape our future.

An approach that is based on reciprocity and the recognition of others opens our minds and nourishes our hearts.

Likewise, who builds environments based on positivity and empathy, gains emotional well-being.

All of this allows us to build a hopeful and more positive future for all.

Take it into account, it’s worth it!