Forgive, Let Go And Close The Past
The past should not prevent us from moving forward. The mistakes made should not be a burden, they should be seen as part of our learning for life.
Our past sometimes obscures us, to the point of preventing us from living our present in peace and harmony.
When that happens, something happens that paralyzes us, stops our legs and prevents us from moving forward.
It is easy to say that we have to let go of the past if we are to continue on our way, but when it demands a lot of us, that it is not natural, there is a much bigger problem that we should to pay attention.
If I’ve made mistakes in the past I’ll learn from them
One of the main problems we fail to move forward on is the mistakes we have made.
Our conscience and our guilt take precedence over what we think we have done wrong, what we should have done otherwise. These things haunt us and torment us.
In principle, we know that not every mistake can be resolved, but what happens when there is no way to go back?
The solution is very simple: you have to learn from this mistake. Think that out of any negative circumstance you can get something positive.
Do not be afraid of mistakes, those which weigh on your conscience, which prevent you from moving forward and subject you to a past that you really cannot change!
You have to look forward because what is done is done, you will not be able to change it.
Should I bemoan my mistakes? Never, because making mistakes is human, something that teaches us and shows us that we are not perfect.
We must be aware that mistakes are positive and that through them we learn a lot.
I won’t deny happiness
Any time past is no better than the present. You have surely gone through sad and tormented circumstances that you remember today. And although they have happened to you, they are now a thing of the past!
You cannot continue to live in your past because the present awaits you.
There are a lot of people who are not able to be happy because they live stuck in their past.
It is normal that sometimes we go back to the past, but we have to go back only to learn, to see what happened and how we learned.
For this we must learn to forgive, but also to forgive ourselves. Resentment is never something beneficial because it refuses any happiness that knocks on your door. It is necessary to let go of whatever attaches you to resentment.
In addition, you must not only learn to forgive others, but also forgive yourself for all those failures that you have experienced.
This will allow you to free yourself from a great weight that you are carrying on your shoulders.
It is therefore essential to bring to your present the opportunity to be able to keep moving forward, even if sometimes you look back. But it is important to do this only if it takes a step towards happiness.
Now is the time, so let go of the past!
Do you know what addiction is? Getting attached to someone because we are afraid of being alone and because a trauma from the past prevents us from being alone in front of ourselves. And in this case, we suffer from addiction to our past.
We must not be dependent on our past because we must learn that we cannot change it. To live only according to him will make of us embittered people, who do not move forward and who have limits all the time.
We cannot move forward if we do not let go. Think that living in the past is like being tied with a rope that you have tied yourself and that you can only untie if you choose to. And now is the time to do it.
Look at your past with observant eyes, learn from it what you did right and what you did wrong in what happened to you.
Forgive all the people who have hurt you. Pay attention to your present and set goals for what you want to change about your past. It is important to take action.
All, at some point, have to go back to our past. It is important not to get stuck forever because our reality is here and now. We live in the present and we are always walking towards the future.
Don’t allow yourself to live in a past that has stuck behind you and only contains things that you don’t like. Today you can change whatever has been left behind. The present gives you this opportunity.
